This overwhelming display of affection might feel flattering or even magical at first, especially if you’ve felt neglected in past relationships. It plays into romanticized notions from fairy tales and romcoms, making it easy to mistake obsession for love.
However, obsession, no matter how enchanting it seems initially, is never healthy. In every narcissistic relationship, this intense attention eventually fades during the devaluation stage, when you go from being the center of their universe to feeling like an unwanted burden.
Obsession vs. Love
Obsession is characterized by effort and grand gestures meant to impress or gain attention. It involves meticulously planned surprises, daily texts at the same time, or extravagant displays of affection. These gestures may seem ideal but are often superficial.
On the other hand, love is rooted in quieter, more meaningful acts of care and support. It’s about making you feel safe, valued, and understood without the need for constant validation.
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