If Narcissist Does This in Bed, They are Cheating With Someone You Know

Sign 5: Withdrawal During Intimacy

They abruptly withdraw during sex—physically or emotionally—because shame crashes over them.

One moment you’re connected, the next they’re gone. This isn’t about physical discomfort—it’s psychological. Mid-intimacy, they shut down, disconnect, or stop altogether.

Why? Because they’re consumed by guilt and shame. The intimacy forces them to confront the truth: they’re betraying you, lying to you, and pretending to be fully present while living a double life.

For narcissists, emotional vulnerability is terrifying. True intimacy threatens to expose the façade they’ve built.

Sign 6: Recording Without Consent

They begin recording or taking intimate photos without clear consent—claiming it’s “just for us.”

This is deeply dangerous and often illegal. A narcissist might say:

“Let’s record this. It’s just for us.”
“Don’t you trust me?”

But the truth? They may use that footage to impress or provoke their affair partner. Some even share it to brag:

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