How to Outsmart a Narcissist at Their Own Game: 5 Psychological Tricks (That Actually Work)

What to do: Compliment their superiority… but frame it as a challenge.
Why it works: Narcissists need to believe they’re the best. Use this to redirect their behavior.

Script:
“You’re so good at getting what you want. I’m sure you’ll figure out a fair solution.”
Translation: “Your ego won’t let you look selfish here.”
Works For:
- Co-workers who steal credit.
- Partners who refuse to apologize.

3. Set ‘Invisible Boundaries’ (Without Saying a Word)

What to do: Stop explaining yourself. Narcissists use your reasons as ammunition.
Why it works: They can’t argue with what they can’t see.

Bad Boundary: “You can’t call me after 10 PM because it’s disrespectful.”
(They’ll argue, gaslight, or “forget.”)
Good Boundary: Silence your phone at 10 PM. Don’t answer. No explanation needed.
(They’ll rage… then find a new target.)