When a narcissist is ready to discard someone, everything becomes an argument. That final fight will often be the worst of all. Everything will be exaggerated, enabling them to feel justified in ending the relationship.
Even though leaving is their personal desire, they will make you feel like it is your fault. Everything you do will be criticized, and nothing will please them anymore. The very sight of you might anger or annoy them. They will blame you for bringing out the worst in them.
The narcissist wants out but also wants you to blame yourself for it. They will never admit to being selfish, inconsiderate, or unfaithful. Instead, they make you believe you are the reason for their infidelity, unhappiness, and the relationship’s failure.
2. Disappearing Without Explanation
Another common tactic is for narcissists to simply vanish. They do not officially end the relationship; they just disappear, block you, and leave you wondering what happened.
During this time, they are often with their new supply, carrying on as though you do not exist. They may resurface days, weeks, or months later, wanting to pick up where they left off, only to disappear again.
This behavior keeps their partner in limbo, unsure of what is happening. However, it is essential to understand that this is not a healthy relationship. When they are not with you, you do not exist in their world.
3. Manipulating Their Partner to End It
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