One way narcissists like to end relationships is by starting fights. When a narcissist is ready to discard someone, everything becomes an argument, and that last fight will be the worst of all. Of course, everything will be exaggerated to justify ending the relationship. Even though it is their personal desire to move on, they will make you feel like it is your fault. Therefore, everything you do will be criticized. Nothing you do will please them anymore. The very sight of you will anger and annoy them. They will blame you for bringing out the worst in them. The narcissist wants out, but they want you to blame yourself for it. They will never admit that they are selfish, inconsiderate, and unfaithful. No, you are the reason for their infidelity and unhappiness; you are the reason the relationship cannot work anymore.
Another dirty way narcissists like to end relationships is by not ending them at all. They just disappear, block you, and leave you wondering what happened. They have essentially gone off with their new supply and are having a full-blown affair as if you don’t exist. They may come back days, weeks, or months later wanting to pick up where they left off, only to do it again. The narcissist keeps their partner in limbo, not knowing what is going on or where they are. All you know is that the narcissist will be back when they are ready. This is not a healthy relationship and should not be tolerated. The fact is that the narcissist is with someone else when they are not with you. You and the relationship you have with them do not exist when they are away. It is out of sight, out of mind.
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