What are narcissists likely to say in their final days? What statements might they make? Well, depending on where the narcissist was or is in their life, their statements can vary. Factors such as their success, age, and the extent of their power can all influence their final words.
It is highly unlikely for a narcissist to have a sudden change of heart and become genuinely remorseful or pleasant. Fear is their default mode, as they lack inner peace. In their final moments, they often seek to cause further pain and confusion.
Their last words are likely to reflect deeply ingrained patterns of self-centeredness and a need for control. These statements will often align with their desire to maintain their self-image or protect their fragile ego, even in their final moments.
One common phrase you might hear is, “I forgive you!” This statement implies that you have wronged the narcissist and that, out of the goodness of their heart, they are forgiving you. However, this is hypocritical and manipulative, highlighting their lack of accountability and tendency to shift blame. Asking for forgiveness is something they rarely do, as it would require them to admit fault. Even to the very end, they often play the victim, portraying everyone else as the problem.
In addition to offering their so-called forgiveness, they may make other blame-shifting statements. They will insist that someone or something else is responsible for their current predicament. Narcissists convince themselves—and ensure others believe—that their suffering is someone else’s fault.
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You may also hear statements rooted in bitterness or self-pity. They might complain about how much they’ve done or given, lamenting that it has brought them to this point. Narcissists often believe they are undeserving of suffering or death, feeling entitled to immunity from life’s hardships. Their delusions of being exceptional make their fate seem especially unfair to them.
Some narcissists may cling to their grandiosity, making statements like, “You’ll never meet someone like me again,” or, “This world wasn’t big enough for me anyway.” Their pride won’t allow them to accept defeat, so they leave with an air of superiority.
On the other hand, some narcissists take a defensive stance, refusing to accept their mortality. They might say things like, “I’m not dying; this is just a phase,” or, “I’ll know when it’s my time, and this isn’t it.” These statements often come from narcissists accustomed to controlling every aspect of their lives, including the idea of death.
Others may focus on protecting their false image or maintaining control even after death. They might instruct their “flying monkeys” to continue smear campaigns or ensure their accomplishments are widely remembered. Their ultimate goal is to shape how they are remembered, reinforcing their desired narrative.
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Hurtful statements intended to linger are also common. These may come in the form of critiques or accusations, designed to leave a lasting impression. Narcissists hate being forgotten, just as they despise no contact or being ignored. They know the power of words and use them to remain present in your thoughts, even after they’re gone.
Before I conclude, I want to note that it is possible for a self-aware narcissist to express a desire for reconciliation in their final moments. However, this would depend heavily on their level of insight and willingness to confront their behavior.
In general, though, narcissists are more focused on playing the victim and protecting their false image. They avoid owning up to their wrongdoings, instead prioritizing accusations, blame-shifting, and guilt-tripping. Their final words are not random; they are calculated to leave a mark.
However, their words only hold the power you give them. Don’t let a narcissist—or any toxic person—speak negativity into your life. Reject their words and free yourself from their influence.
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