When a narcissist turns people against you, it can feel like your world is crumbling. This article explores what you can do in such situations—steps you may not have thought about before. Let’s discuss the best course of action when a narcissistic individual in your life starts turning others against you.
The Flying Monkey Dynamic
If you’re familiar with the term “flying monkeys,” you’ll understand this behavior well. Flying monkeys are people—be they parents, friends, siblings, coworkers, or others in your network—whom the narcissist manipulates into siding with them. These individuals are used to spread lies and destroy your support system.
This tactic is especially common during divorces, where shared family and social networks give narcissists the opportunity to spread malicious rumors. The goal is simple: to isolate you, diminish your support, and tip the power balance in their favor. As a result, the victim often begins to doubt their self-worth, especially when trusted individuals side with the narcissist.
How Narcissists Manipulate Others
Narcissists excel at manipulation. With their charm, charisma, and keen understanding of social dynamics, they can easily persuade others to believe their fabricated stories. They might adopt a sympathetic tone, weaponize past arguments, or even fabricate elaborate lies to gain sympathy and support.
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