The Truth About Why Narcissists Choose You Over Everyone Else -

Have you ever wondered why narcissists choose you and what they see in you? This isn’t a coincidence—you were chosen for a reason. When selecting friends or relationships, narcissists are highly observant. They seek out particular traits, some of which you might not even realize you have. But trust me, you have a lot to offer.

1. Empathy and Compassion

The first thing a narcissist is drawn to is your empathy and compassion. If you are gentle, patient, and nonjudgmental, they adore these qualities in you. It attracts them because it’s something they lack. Narcissists won’t choose someone who challenges them, constantly questions them, or argues with them. They want someone kind, caring, and, ideally, someone who doesn’t ask too many questions. If you are highly empathetic and intuitive about others’ emotions, they will see you as a perfect target.

2. A Sense of Responsibility

Narcissists are also drawn to individuals with a strong sense of responsibility—those who are diligent, accountable, and eager to make things right. These individuals tend to prioritize others’ needs over their own, which plays into the narcissist’s hands. Your natural inclination to help and fix things creates an opportunity for the narcissist to project their issues onto you. This sense of obligation makes it harder to leave because you feel responsible for their well-being.