8 Strange Behaviors of the Aging Narcissist
Now, let’s talk about staying relevant. The narcissist can’t bear the thought of being forgotten, ignored, or irrelevant. In the age of social media, it’s an open playing field. They’ll post anything—anything—just to get a reaction. They’ll tell grandiose stories, embellish their roles, or drop names of people they barely knew just to appear important. It’s like a constant cry for attention, no matter how cringe-worthy. They’ll do whatever it takes to stay on top, even if it means spinning a web of lies that no one believes anymore.
Here’s where it gets even more unsettling: the aging narcissist will weaponize their own fragility. They’ll use their age as a shield, an excuse for bad behavior. “I’m old; I can’t help it,” they’ll cry as they lash out or shirk responsibility. They want others to cater to them to feel special, even though they’ve pushed people away. It’s a cruel manipulation, using guilt and fragility as weapons in their never-ending quest for control.
Hoarding is another odd behavior. It’s not just physical things; it’s memories, too. The aging narcissist will cling to items—sometimes junk—that symbolize a time when they were someone. They’ll refuse to part with things that once represented their status, even though they’re no longer of value. They’re holding on to something that no longer exists, and they’ll lash out if anyone suggests they let go. It’s a deep-seated fear that if they let go of the past, they’ll lose the only thing they feel defines them.
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