If you ask a narcissist this, they might dismiss the question as stupid or irrelevant. At times, they may blame others for perceived slights but quickly follow up with, “That doesn’t bother me; it’s their problem.” Admitting hurt would make them appear weak—something they avoid at all costs. They fail to understand that their caustic behavior often stems from unresolved pain.
2. Why is it so difficult for you to admit flaws and mistakes?
When a narcissist makes a mistake, they rarely take responsibility. Instead, they deflect blame onto others. Admitting flaws feels threatening because it implies they are regular people. Narcissists work hard to maintain an idealized image of perfection.
3. Why do you feel the need to impress strangers?
Narcissists are drawn to strangers because they represent a blank slate—a chance to create a fabricated narrative of success and charm. This behavior stems from their desire for admiration, even if it’s based on superficial or false impressions.
4. Why do my differences threaten you?
Differences challenge the narcissist’s worldview and their need for control. Their lack of empathy prevents them from valuing perspectives other than their own. To them, differences imply they’re not the center of the universe—a notion they strongly reject.
5. Do you honestly believe your opinions cancel out the validity of others’?
Narcissists often view their opinions as the only ones that matter. They dismiss differing viewpoints, whether on major topics like politics or minor preferences like vacation plans, believing only their perspective holds value.
6. In what ways do you need to grow and change?
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