8 Lies ALL Narcissists Tell

The sixth lie is that I intend to change.

I’m going to be more polite.

I‘m going to do whatever you want me to do around here.

And this is a lie you will only hear when the Narcissists require something from you. So, let’s say they discarded you and are returning on a Hoover because they need supply and you are the quickest route to get there.

They’ll make you promise that you won’t be able to keep. They’ll promise you that things will get better, that they’ll go to counseling, or that they’ll be nicer to you and improve their behavior.

But if you’ve been here before, you’ll know that this is completely false.

7. “I love you”

The seventh lie you may hear from a narcissist is the harshest. It’s a difficult one to hear, and it’s even more difficult to share with you. But the truth is that I love you is a lie when a narcissist says it.

It’s unfortunate and sad all around, but narcissists lack the emotional empathy needed for true human connection.

And it is also due to this lack of empathy that they are able to harm others without remorse. If you’ve been here, I empathize with you because I’ve been here as well.

It’s at this point, when you realize the lie, that you’re likely to feel betrayed.

You might be thinking, “How could anyone who ever loved me treat me like this?” How can someone who cares be so cruel? And, unfortunately, it is a narcissist’s lack of empathy that allows them to turn off the kindness and turn on the hate with lightning speed.