Number 6: They go back and try to reclaim their old narcissistic supply. Think of the narcissistic supply as gasoline for a car. In this case, that gasoline represents another person’s blatant admiration. When they feel low on their narcissistic supply or don’t feel like putting in the effort to find a new source, they often come back to old sources instead. Most narcissists keep a mental list of go-to people who will provide that supply, such as exes who haven’t completely cut them off. Even if they are seeing someone new, they might still reach out to the ex. They may flirt when they’re bored, complain about their current partner, or drop the classic “I can’t stop thinking about you.” Regardless of the angle, the goal is always the same: to get that ex’s attention and validation quickly. Now, these exes might think the attention they’re receiving from the narcissist means they’re special. But honestly? It’s just about convenience. To the narcissist, they are like a backup gas station or an easy way to refuel when they’re running on empty. Here’s the kicker: narcissists tend to cast a wide net, contacting several people at once. So, whoever replies first becomes their next stop for getting that narcissistic supply.
Number 7: They create plans and schemes. Narcissists are masters at planning and scheming to manipulate people and keep themselves feeling superior. They do this to exploit vulnerabilities in relationships, gain sympathy, take control, or even get back at someone they believe has wronged them. This kind of calculated behavior helps them create situations where they receive the attention, admiration, and validation they crave. It also fuels the drama, chaos, and conflict they thrive on, keeping them at the center of it all. As you can expect, this often comes at a significant cost to others, particularly their victims.
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