Do you have a narcissist in your life? You know, someone charismatic who hogs the spotlight to an extreme degree and thinks they can never do wrong. They see themselves as the most perfect person you know. If so, brace yourself because we’re about to reveal what they do when no one’s watching. Buckle up and get ready to have your mind blown as we dive into the dark world of narcissism. But fair warning: you may never look at these individuals the same way again.
To understand why narcissists do the things we’ll be revealing in this article, you need to know that their sense of stability depends heavily on outside validation. Conversely, even the smallest bit of criticism can really throw them off. That’s why they often have a hard time being alone and are constantly chasing what’s called the narcissistic supply. Basically, this means the admiration and attention they need to maintain their inflated self-image and self-worth. Without it, they can feel insignificant, insecure, weak, and overwhelmed by shame. Ultimately, the things they do when no one’s watching are all about getting that narcissistic supply they need to appear superior.
So, what are those seven things they secretly do?
Number 1: Spend time on social media. When a narcissist is on their own, social media often becomes their go-to for getting attention and validation. They perceive it as their personal stage where they can show off and fish for compliments or admiration. This is why you’ll see them post things that highlight their accomplishments and personal life, basically anything that boosts their ego. Every post is carefully crafted to ensure people see them exactly as they want to be seen. Narcissists also love sliding into DMs. They don’t care whether it’s with someone they know or a total stranger. What’s more, their messages might come off as super flirty or overly complimentary to grab attention. Sometimes, it’s part of a larger plan to love-bomb or shower someone with attention to get that person hooked on them. They also won’t hesitate to leave comments on posts to invite praise, shift the spotlight onto themselves, or even stir up drama. For instance, they’ll post random insults, pick fights online, or cause chaos in social networks just to make themselves feel in control. Arguing with strangers online is another way for them to assert dominance and stroke their ego. At the end of the day, everything they do on social media is about getting narcissistic supply. But the catch is that while social media gives them a platform to seek attention, it also leads them to compare themselves to other people’s curated, picture-perfect lives. That can trigger envy and insecurity, making it a double-edged sword for them.
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