Game over. That is what a narcissist thinks the moment they realize you have figured them out. The illusion is cracking, their control is slipping, and they know it’s only a matter of time before you break free. But don’t think for a second that they will just let you walk away. No, this is when they unleash their seven most insidious tricks designed to reel you back in, distort your reality, and make you question everything you thought you knew.
Most people never talk about what really happens when a narcissist senses your awakening, when they realize you are waking up from the coma of cognitive dissonance. Nobody talks about the energetic pull, the strategic admission of the narcissist’s mistakes, and the psychological games they play that are designed to keep you trapped. But today, we are breaking it down, because once you recognize these tricks, you can defeat them when they make their last move.
Trick number one: They will energetically stalk you until you give in. Let’s say you have started to emotionally distance yourself from the narcissist because you are tired of giving them chances. You talk less to them; perhaps you have left, and you are uninvolved. Suddenly, they are in your head 24/7. We call it rumination. You dream about them, you feel an urge to check their social media, and you randomly think about them even when you do not want to. This isn’t just trauma bonding or withdrawal from that relationship; it is energetic stalking.
How well do narcissists control? They do not just control with words and actions; they control through energy. When they realize you are slipping away, they start obsessively thinking about you, mentally pulling at you, visualizing you reaching out, and emotionally tying themselves to you in a way that you can feel. Call it negative or evil manifestation, but it works—I have seen it happen. If you are intuitive, sensitive, or still emotionally connected to them, you will pick up on it. You will start second-guessing your decision; you will mistake their energetic pull for your unresolved feelings. And if that does not work, they will post good memories designed to put you back under their spell and make you forget what you actually know about them. For instance, they will keep adding music to the playlist you may still share on Spotify to elicit strong emotions that can keep an opening to your life intact.
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