Narcissists have specific standards for the people they choose to target. These standards may vary from one narcissist to another, but the most common reason for them to become attached to someone is that they can gain something from that person. Many narcissists are searching for a “unicorn” that often does not exist in reality. They tend to have unrealistic expectations for their partners that even they cannot achieve.
However, narcissists do not choose just anyone from the crowd. They might encounter individuals who can disarm them. That is why narcissists have this unwritten rule in selecting their victims and those they choose to stay with for a long time. It is essential to understand why you attract these specific types of people because sometimes, honey, it’s not just bad luck. You should watch this video, “6 Reasons That Keep Narcissists Attached to You,” to learn about the six reasons that keep narcissists attached to you.
Number 1: Your Success and Achievements. Narcissists are opportunistic people by definition. While “opportunists” often carries negative connotations, implying that those labeled as such take unprincipled and unfair advantage of opportunities for selfish ends, it’s important to note that narcissists fit this description. After recognizing these traits, we learn that narcissists want to be associated with someone who can provide them with ample resources. Every success matters to them, whether it’s your degree, intelligence, work, or promotions. They look for those they can leech off, and even the things you own matter—such as the type of car, your bags, shoes, or clothes. Everything you own that they can use will keep a narcissist attached to you.
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