No matter how strong narcissists pretend to be, it is entirely possible to get under their skin. They can fall apart if you play it right and face their karma without respite. But how would you know you have succeeded in flipping the power dynamic and left them struggling? Let’s find out in today’s episode.
The topic for this episode is six signs you have made the narcissist suffer. Now, some of you may ask, why would you want to make a narcissist suffer? Doesn’t that turn you into them? Ask this question of those who have lost everything because of the narcissist: their youth, hard-earned money, children, peace, and health. Sometimes it’s okay to want justice served and to know that you’re not completely powerless in a situation involving a narcissistic person. Sometimes it’s okay to channel your anger in a way that leaves the narcissist dismantled.
Number One: Their Rage is No Longer Calculated
It is self-destructive. You remember the controlled, cold anger—a precise tool they wielded to manipulate, intimidate, and dominate. Now it is different. You have noticed their anger has lost its strategic precision and descended into chaos. They lash out publicly and recklessly, without thought of consequence or preservation of image. They are no longer controlling their anger; it controls them. That’s the biggest sign. They explode, creating scenes and alienating even their closest allies, burning bridges without forethought. This loss of control screams louder than words. You have shaken them profoundly. You see them erupting over minor inconveniences, their overreactions spilling out in public settings where they once maintained an impeccable facade. Their tantrums have become public spectacles, leaving those around them shocked and distancing themselves. Friends who previously believed in their polished image begin to question their stability, pulling away and leaving the narcissist completely isolated. Each outburst you witness isn’t just anger; it is proof of their weakening grip—proof that your strength and refusal to engage have disrupted their sense of control.
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