2) Lack of Emotional Accountability
Generally, narcissists can’t admit they’re wrong or take responsibility for their actions. They deny, deflect, and blame others, even when clearly in the wrong.
A female covert narcissist particularly shows low emotional intelligence through her inability to take responsibility for her emotional reactions and the impact they have on others. She expects you to walk on eggshells and absorb her emotional outbursts.
While it’s normal to be mindful of your partner’s emotional triggers, there’s a big difference between being supportive and being held hostage by someone’s unchecked emotions. If your partner refuses to own their emotional reactions and blames you instead, this is a red flag.
3) Lack of Empathy
Female covert narcissists are skilled at pretending to care, making it seem like they have high emotional intelligence. However, any concern they show is superficial and self-serving.
When you need real emotional support, they invalidate or blame you, even if you’ve been their emotional rock. Their empathy is transactional, designed to make you feel indebted to them. They’ll remind you of everything they’ve done for you while ignoring the countless things you’ve done for them.
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