5 ways a narcissist can show you their love BEWARE OF THESE!

Number 2: The Narcissist Makes a Blueprint for How to Love You

Number two: the narcissist makes a blueprint for how to love you. What does this mean? Like architects designing a building, a narcissist can study your love language to plan their actions. This takes place in newly formed relationships. At first, it sounds sweet, but this is usually how love bombing starts. The narcissist will be eager to learn about you; they’ll want to know what makes you happy, sad, triggered, and reactive. This information is then expressed through grand gestures of affection. On the downside, it can also be used against you.

This kind of relationship usually lasts from 6 to 12 weeks. Just like a bomb, the love explodes and disappears, leaving a trail of abuse. It ends when the narcissist feels they have fully gained your trust, and you are no longer capable of doubting their love. This is all the more dangerous in online dating; people can easily access information that you put out about yourself on those platforms, making you an easy target. Narcissists shift into what you want temporarily in order to get what they want long-term.