When you have endured the darkness of narcissistic abuse, it’s easy to feel alone and abandoned. However, as a chosen one, an empath, know that God or the Universe has never neglected you. You may feel stuck, trapped in a rut, with no one supporting you. But what if I told you that God is by your side? That higher power is working for you, behind the scenes, guiding you toward healing, growth, and the recognition of your purpose.
Sign 1: Toxic People Leave Your Life
The first sign is that toxic people begin to leave your life, often abruptly. Narcissists drift away or are removed by divine intervention. People who are not aligned with your higher purpose are filtered out.
For example, you might have tried to escape your narcissistic family before but failed because they reestablished control. But now, things are different. A way has appeared—unexpected support, financial help, or a safe place to stay. These sudden opportunities are not coincidences; they are divine interventions.
Personal Story: My Journey to Freedom
This happened to me during college. I realized my entire family was narcissistic, but I was deeply enmeshed with my mother. My father was a monster, but I stayed to shield my mom, who I thought was a victim. However, she eventually revealed her true nature.
Circumstances—clearly guided by a divine force—forced me to leave. I had no choice but to travel to a different state for studies. Though it was painful, I began to gain clarity and heal. The pandemic later reinforced my separation, further revealing the toxic dynamics of my family.
Sign 2: Developing the Strength to Say No
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You develop an unexplainable strength to say no. Out of nowhere, you can set boundaries you never could before. You say no to shaming, blaming, guilt-tripping, and drama.
Personal Example
During the pandemic, my mother asked for a large sum of money, which she intended to loan out to someone else. I refused for the first time. Though I faced silent treatment and rage, this moment strengthened my resolve and helped me see the reality of my situation.
Sign 3: Turning Pain into Purpose
Your pain transforms into your calling. That unbearable suffering becomes fuel for something greater. You realize your pain wasn’t meaningless; it’s guiding you toward a higher purpose.
Personal Example
During college, I bought the domain emotionalabusecovery.com with no clear plan. This small step laid the foundation for my current work. Despite uncertainty, divine intuition guided me, and today, I help others escape toxic situations.
Sign 4: Deepening Connection with God
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You feel a stronger connection to God in unexpected ways. You are drawn to prayer, meditation, and self-reflection. You find peace in solitude and begin to see deeper meaning in your experiences.
Personal Experience
During a silent phase, I felt an undeniable divine presence that comforted me. This spiritual connection gave me clarity and strength to move toward my purpose with confidence.
Sign 5: A New Vision for the Future
A new vision for your future emerges. Once trapped in the past or present, you now see possibilities for a better life. You receive divine inspiration—small ideas, unexpected insights, or a clear voice guiding your next steps.
Personal Example
Some of my best ideas come in the state between sleep and wakefulness. These moments have brought clarity about my path, reaffirming my decision to go no contact and reinforcing my confidence.
Conclusion
Those are the five undeniable signs that God is paving your path as a narcissistic abuse survivor. I hope you found them relatable and encouraging.
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