Narcissists often find absurd reasons to avoid helping. For example, they might say they can’t move because the cat is in their lap or claim they’re busy with an urgent meeting. They dangle the hope of future rewards—like a salary raise—to justify their inaction, leaving you to shoulder the burden.
If you push back, they accuse you of being unreasonable or trying to make them look bad. Their excuses are a way to dodge responsibility while blaming you for their shortcomings.
5. They Boast About Doing Basic Chores
When a narcissist completes even the simplest task, they expect excessive praise. Washing their own cup or picking up groceries becomes an act of heroism in their eyes. Meanwhile, they ignore the countless hours of hard work you put in every day.
They downplay your efforts, dismiss your sacrifices, and make it clear that their minimal contributions deserve applause. If you don’t respond with admiration, they’ll accuse you of being ungrateful.
The Ulterior Motive
Every action a narcissist takes has an ulterior motive. If they offer help, it’s often transactional—intended to manipulate you into fulfilling their desires later. For example, they might demand intimacy as “repayment” for their so-called assistance, disregarding your emotional and physical well-being.
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