4 Ways to Torture The Narcissist

In other words, once you’ve broken free, do what you need to do to not only heal and get well but also grow and evolve into the best self that you came to the planet to be. The version of yourself that wouldn’t give the narcissist the time of day if you met them now, at this new stage of your life, and from this new perspective of self-love and self-worth. Few things will inflict narcissistic injury and torture the narcissist more seriously than you morphing into the happiest, healthiest, most beautiful, soul-aligned, purposeful, driven, on-path, on-purpose, mission-soul you were always intended to be.

Now, this means that you take your healing and recovery to the next level. You take the time and do the work to reinvent yourself from the inside out. You heal your wounds and traumas, yes and you deal with all of your fears, insecurities, and limiting beliefs while you’re at it. You do what you need to do to look your best and feel your best authentically and for real, again, from the inside out. If, as a result of losing yourself in narcissistically abusive relationships, you’ve let yourself go, no worries. It’s time now to glow up. The better you look, the better you feel. The better you feel, the better you look. And you deserve to look and feel your best.

Now, how you look isn’t everything, but don’t kid yourself it matters, and it has a massive impact on your self-esteem, your self-concept, and how you see and feel about yourself. So, pull yourself together and put some effort into looking and feeling your best again. You deserve to feel good, and you deserve to look good. More importantly, however, do the work to uplevel your self-image from the inside and become the empowered, high-value version of yourself that you know you can be and that you know has always been inside of you, just waiting to step up and step out. Become willing to do whatever it takes for as long as it takes to become that person, outgrow the narcissist, and anything and anyone that is a vibrational match to pain, drama, and trauma. And in doing so, not only will you torture the narcissist (from a distance, of course), but you’ll also expose all the lies for what they are simply by being who you are who you become, who you were always meant to be by who you are at your core, how you show up, and how you live your life.

The bigger game you get to play so much so that all the lies they’ve told about you just don’t add up. They simply do not make sense to any rational human being. Grow into that person, and be willing to be patient with yourself along the way. It’s a journey. Here’s the thing: the absolute best and sweetest revenge there is moving on from narcissistic perpetrators and moving into living your best, happiest, most peaceful, harmonious, productive, prosperous, and impactful life. I promise you, it doesn’t get any sweeter than that.

By committing to a serious healing and recovery process, dropping the narcissist like a hot rock, never picking that rock up again, and then reinventing yourself from the inside out, you will automatically upgrade not only yourself and your standards but also your life and your lifestyle. Now, this may not happen overnight, but if you’re committed, it will happen and probably faster than you can imagine. Imagine if you were to get serious about changing your life for the better and committing to the work and the process. What you could accomplish over the next year or two? If you’re committed, your life can be completely different and unrecognizable by this time next year. Imagine what that would do for your self-worth and your self-esteem. How would that feel? What would that look like for you?

People often overestimate what they can accomplish in a week or a month but then completely underestimate what they can accomplish in a year. If you want to torture the narcissist the right way, get focused on creating your best life no matter what it takes or how long it takes. The time is going to pass anyway. Where do you want to be in a year or two or three or five? Even decide today that you’re going to make it happen.