Narcissists are known for being self-obsessed, but at their core, they are just like us. They have regrets, feel shame, and experience guilt and embarrassment. Watch until the end as I reveal 10 Things That a Narcissist Regrets in Their Life.
Number 1: Losing Control of Their Victims
Narcissists crave control and cannot tolerate losing it. They want to manipulate people to get what they desire, acting as puppet masters, keeping others on a string for as long as possible. When someone manages to break free from their influence, narcissists regret it deeply. They obsess over the mistakes that allowed someone to undermine their control. This can leave them frustrated or angry, often leading them to seek revenge to reassert dominance and feel better about themselves.
Number 2: Discarding Their Supply
Narcissists frequently regret discarding their “supply”—the people they depend on for validation and admiration. They often struggle to maintain long-term relationships because they get bored easily. However, when they realize how lonely they are without someone who genuinely cared for them, regret can creep in. They may especially feel guilty if their former supply was integral to their life. Despite this, narcissists tend to repeat the cycle, discarding people and seeking new sources of admiration.
Number 3: Not Being Honest About How They Feel
Narcissists often deny or suppress their feelings, making it difficult for them to express themselves. Vulnerability feels like a weakness to them, so they avoid discussing their emotions, even with loved ones. Instead, they bottle up their feelings, which can lead to shame and self-loathing. This dishonesty about their emotions prevents them from forming meaningful connections, leaving them isolated and regretful.
Number 4: Not Being Able to Accept Their Flaws
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Narcissists see themselves as perfect, making it hard for them to admit mistakes or shortcomings. They live in denial, often blaming others for their problems. While they strive to project an image of perfection, deep down, they may feel regretful and ashamed of their inability to embrace their imperfections.
Number 5: Not Getting Enough Attention as a Child
One of the deepest regrets narcissists carry is not receiving enough attention or validation during childhood. This lack of attention often contributes to their intense need for admiration as adults. They may harbor resentment toward their parents or feel like they missed out on happiness due to this early neglect.
Number 6: Not Being Able to Control Their Emotions
Narcissists struggle with emotional regulation, often letting anger and frustration dictate their actions. They hate feeling out of control but frequently lose their temper, leading to regret over their inability to manage their emotions. This lack of control can tarnish their carefully crafted image, which they find deeply unsettling.
Number 7: Not Being Able to Manipulate Other People
Manipulation is a key tool for narcissists to feel powerful. When their attempts at manipulation fail, it damages their self-esteem and leaves them feeling weak. Narcissists often regret not being able to manipulate others, as this loss of control undermines their sense of superiority and dominance.
Number 8: Not Having More Money, Power, and Influence
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Narcissists envy those who are wealthy, powerful, and influential. They constantly seek ways to increase their own status, often feeling frustrated that they aren’t where they want to be. Despite knowing the effort required to achieve such success, they wish for shortcuts and regret not already being at the top.
Number 9: Not Being Able to Stay on Top at All Times
Narcissists have an intense need to maintain dominance and hate being seen as weak or flawed. When they fail to stay “on top,” they make excuses and blame external factors rather than accepting their limitations. Their constant battle for supremacy leaves them exhausted and regretful.
Number 10: Never Being Truly Loved by Anyone
One of the biggest regrets for narcissists is their inability to experience genuine love. Despite craving admiration, their selfishness and lack of emotional understanding prevent them from forming deep, meaningful relationships. This often leads to loneliness, depression, and a persistent sense of emptiness. Narcissists may spend their entire lives trying to prove they’re worthy of love but never actually receive it, leaving them bitter and regretful.
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