10 Signs He’s Fighting His Feelings for You
Number 6: He won’t talk about his feelings.
Another indicator that he is battling his feelings for you is if he purposely makes things superficial and avoids discussing the two of you and how you both feel, or the direction of the relationship, because he feels uncomfortable. If it scares him, he will avoid having this difficult conversation. As a defense strategy, he may joke around or attempt to lighten the atmosphere. On the other hand, he may become irritable or overwhelmed. Feeling overwhelmed will cause him to shut down even more completely. Therefore, if you sense this beginning to happen, try to slow the connection down and make it easy for him. Additionally, this will increase the likelihood that things will develop positively for both of you. Thus, being somewhat adaptable is critical.
Number 7: He goes out with other people.
You may believe that you are making progress, that things are going well, and that they are finally beginning to take shape. However, if he is battling his love for you, he may self-sabotage. He may flee to another person in an attempt to get over you. If you’re not together and he’s insecure about his emotions, he may also constantly date or converse with other people. However, it is almost always a pointless fling and an effort to divert his attention away from you. Additionally, you may notice that he flirts with others around you to gauge your response. He may seem different, yet he may have deeper feelings than you realize. This is especially true if you recognize the other signals indicating that he is battling his love for you concurrently.
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