10 Disturbing Things Narcissist Thinks During S£x -

Physical !ntimaçy for most people is a moment of connection, isn’t it? It’s a moment of vulnerability and mutual pl£asure. It’s about trust, love, and emotional safety. But when you are with a narcissist, S£x is something entirely different. It’s not about love. It’s not about connection either. It’s not even about physical pl£asure in the way you may think.

For a narcissist, physical !ntimaçy is a tool, a performance, a weapon, and sometimes a punishment. You may think you are sharing something special with them, with your partner, the one you trust. However, deep inside their mind, there’s an entirely different conversation happening, which is what we are going to discuss. This conversation, if you were to hear it, could terrify you, and that’s why I wanted to share things with you that you need to know.

The narcissist’s mind during physical !ntimaçy is not filled with passion or care. It’s calculating, cold, and twisted. It’s a battlefield where they must win an opportunity to gain power and secure absolute control. As you lie there, literally thinking you are in the arms of someone who desires you, their thoughts are far from what you believe. They’re not lost in the moment; they’re not overwhelmed with love. They’re thinking about themselves—only themselves.

Ownership and Possession: The Narcissist’s First Thought

The first thing they think about is ownership: “I own you.” To a narcissist, !ntimaçy is all about possession. The moment you give your body to them, they register that act as absolute surrender. In their psychotic, delusional mind, it is proof of their dominance over you. It means they have secured another layer of control, another way to manipulate you. They do not see you as an equal partner in this experience who needs to be taken care of. They see you as an object, a belonging, something they have claimed. This is why many narcissists lose interest after the chase, and that’s why it’s so quick with them. Once they feel they have taken you, the game is over. Their need for conquest has been fulfilled, and now you are nothing more than an item on the shelf of victories.